Smile up a storm.

Can we appreciate that men are self conscious and have unrealistic body expectations, too? Like my boyfriend feels unattractive because he has a bit of a belly and is really hairy. I think he’s hot just how he is. Other girls made him shave his chest or said he should lose weight. Men can be hurt by words, too. Guys have self esteem too. It’s not about gender, it’s just people in general. The person I love has a hairy chest and back, isn’t super buff or fit and he has flaws. But I want him. Not Captain America, Magic Mike or anyone else aesthetically popular. All people, no matter gender, should know people love them as they are.

eatingisfab:

i wish i can just read good novels, watch great movies, listen to my favorite songs, travel, see beautiful things, eat whenever im hungry and sleep when im tired but no no, i have to go to school, graduate, find a job and struggle. 

pandaspwnz:

farfrompaid:

You not finding me attractive is not going to stop me from being attractive.

I SWEAR TO GOD IF YOU KEEP THIS MINDSET YOU WILL GET SOOO MUCH CONFIDENCE

Why do people straighten or curl their hair to put it in a ponytail?

Maybe I’m just not super “with it” in fashion, but a pony tail is literally throwing your hair up out if the way.

The Phoenix sun makes my skin look transparent. These cigarettes are killing me but they help with the stress.

siriusly-fatal:

noonington:
My son is going to his fathers this weekend while I drill with my national guard unit. I hate sending him there, but legally I have to. The abuse he put me through was somehow labelled as not a threat to our son. He’s never shown warning signs and never hurt our son, but dropping off your child with someone who abused you is terrifying. I’m supposed to be a soldier, but when I see him adrenaline will course through my veins and my hands will shake. I’m supposed to be a soldier, but fear for my sons well being isn’t something they could cure me from. I will walk straight into my own destruction. I would meet my ex without my son and be able to stare him straight in the face with no fear, no shaking, just readiness. But having no choice in leaving my son with him? He’s found a way to channel my fear, even now.

My son is going to his fathers this weekend while I drill with my national guard unit. I hate sending him there, but legally I have to. The abuse he put me through was somehow labelled as not a threat to our son. He’s never shown warning signs and never hurt our son, but dropping off your child with someone who abused you is terrifying. I’m supposed to be a soldier, but when I see him adrenaline will course through my veins and my hands will shake. I’m supposed to be a soldier, but fear for my sons well being isn’t something they could cure me from. I will walk straight into my own destruction. I would meet my ex without my son and be able to stare him straight in the face with no fear, no shaking, just readiness. But having no choice in leaving my son with him? He’s found a way to channel my fear, even now.

alanaisreading:

Recipe for guilt-free doughnuts.

WHEN I SPEND MY FRIDAY NIGHT BLOGGING INSTEAD OF GOING OUT
I cremated a cigarette.

I cremated a cigarette.

Today would have been my 5 year wedding anniversary.

I’m glad I dodged that bullet.

God, oh god my skin melts beneath you
pure white fire ignites the flesh
and as you pour yourself into me
I realize now why molten lava is beautiful
you burn me from the inside out
turn my bones into liquid moans of I love you
darling, oh darling you drive me insane
with the motion of your fluid hands
you drench me in fiery haven
so with such earnest I release myself to you
and thunder escapes between my lips
as lightning surges through this soul
my body dissolves into an everlasting rain
you’ve turned me into a natural disaster
(mw.) making love to you is a sin (via driftinggrace)

balanc3andcomposure:

things that make you feel powerful

  • matching lace underwear
  • heels (and the clicking noise they make when you walk and you know you lookin hot)
  • red lipstick
  • perfect coal black eyeliner
  • curled hair
  • freshly done nails
  • cute new clothes

Things that make me feel powerful:

- Being in full battle rattle for field training.

- Shooting my M16 

- Maxing my PT test

#differentpriorities #ilovemym16